마음을 다스리려 바느질을 하건만...더 혼탁해지는 내 마음..
머리 속이 복잡하다.
감정 상태도 불안하다.
그래..바느질로 안정을 찾아보자!....는.....
한동안 마무리를 짓지 못한 가방의 손잡이를 달아주기 위해
가방끈으로 매치할 부자재들을 준비해봅니다.
몇 가지 후보들을 골라 이리저리 대어 봅니다.
하지만 뭐가 더 나을지 쉽사리 결정을 못하겠어요.
일단 달아보고 맘에 안 들면 다시 뜯어내면 되잖아? 그게 어려운 일이니??
그럼, 그 간의 수고는 물거품이 되고 다시 제자리야!
실패를 두려워해서는 안돼!
두려워하던 두려워하지 않던 상처가 남는다고! 이 가방이던 내 마음이던!
상처는 아물게 되어있어!
누가 그래??! 아문다고!
난 겁쟁이가 아니야!!
실패가 두려워 포기한다면 너에게 성공은 없어!
그딴 말 누가 몰라?? 몰라서 안 하는 게 아니야!
알면서도 안 하는 건 더 어리석지!
아시는 분은 아시겠지만 저흰 결혼 3년차,
울릉도로 발령이 나고 매번 남편이 왔는데
이번 주말에는 제가 남편을 만나러 가기로 했어요.
늘 남편이 그랬듯,
새벽 5:30에 집에서 나와 역으로 가는 버스를 타고,
기차를 기다리는 동안 남편과 통화를 하고,
포항에 도착해서 다시 택시를 타고,
여객선 터미널에 도착했습니다.
매주 남편이 다니는 출근길을 따라와 보니
물론 알고 있었지만, 정말 고생하는게 느껴지네요.
아침 일찍 잘 일어나는 남편이지만
매주 이렇게 고생을 하는게 너무 안쓰러워요.
왔다갔다 몸만 상하는 게 아닐지,
혹시나 배에 문제가 생겨 사고가 나는 건 아닐지
매번 걱정이 됩니다.
순간이동의 능력이나 문을 열면 원하는 곳에 도착하는
도깨비의 능력이 있었으면 좋겠어요.
그럼 매일 손 잡고 출퇴근 시켜줄 텐데!
도깨비 다들 보셨죠? 너무 부러운 능력이에요.
이제 배타고 세시간 반의 여정이 또 남았네요.
남편 만나면 꼭 껴안아 줘야겠어요 :)
5월 어버이날 어린이날 각종 결혼식 및 행사로 마이너스 지출을 하고 6월은 조용히 지나가나 했더만 회사 그룹웨어에 경조사들이 줄줄이 !!
요즘 돌잔치같은 경우는 가족끼리 혹은 지인몇몇들과 하는 추세이지만 아직까지 이 지역은 셋째까지도 돌잔치를 합니다;;ㅎㅎ
덕분에 인구가 많지 않은 지역임에도 수도권 못지않은 돌잔치를 치룰 부페들이 아주 흥흥흥 하죠
어느 결혼식장은 타지역 웨딩플레너가 와서 이런 곳(?)에 이렇게 좋은 결혼식장이 있냐며 놀랬다는...
아무튼 어제 클렛에서 받은 오아시스 시티 코인 판 돈으로 내려고 합니다 흐흐...
Bener Meriah residents who drowned, found dead.
Mulyadi (28), a resident of Pantan Lues, Kecamatan Gajah Putih, Bener Meriah, who drowned in the river 'Krueng Peusangan, Bireuen, Sunday (04/21/2019), was found dead in the Krueng Peusangan school, Teupin Mane Village, District July, Bireuen, Tuesday (4/23/2019).
Bener Meriah Residents Drift When Catching Fish.
The Search and Rescue Team combed the Krueng Peusangan stream, Juli District, Bireuen, looking for sinking victims, Monday, 4/22/2019. This second day sweeping involved several related elements to search for victims.
There's a crisis in the next main page. I mean, even if you cut it down and you cut it down, it down... It's called "Marriage? You Can't." I felt bitter while reading.
It was amazing that there was still an uncivilized marriage culture.
It was also quite surprising to put a house in the wedding money.
I'm not talking about the old saying, "The Divine Marriage is in a single room..."
Wouldn't it be a problem to include housing costs in the wedding fund?
Of course, housing is definitely a place for marriage, but even if you don't get married, shouldn't it be excluded from the calculation of marriage funds?
If housing were to be included in the wedding, the wedding would have to include all the food, transportation and childcare expenses for the entire life of marriage.
Therefore, I think putting housing money into marriage is just a media play to attract attention.
Rather, isn't this a media play that creates a sense of hypocrisy for many people who don't even have a relationship, let alone get married?
Personally, they are against the idea that marriage is a meeting between the family and the family.
Even if the information in that article goes away from the old notion of family and family meeting,
So even if you're left with a man you love completely,
The food for gifts, hares, and jeans is gone and will save approximately 28 million won.
Hmm... I look forward to the creation of a culture in which we regard all of us as uncivilized.
Yesterday, the Constitutional Court of Korea ruled that abortion is unconstitutional and now abortion is legal in Korea.
It's a very controversial issue, about abortion.
Recently gained their power to the feminism of the many discussions on the French, who argue that illegal abortion is unconstitutional.
- Abortion is also a woman's right to self-determination.
- The state is exerting strong repression of women's bodies for the birth rate.
There were a lot of arguments on the other side that were unconstitutional.
But the legal argument remains unchanged today.
- The fetus is life, and this life must be protected as well.
When I was in middle school, I watched a video of abortion in sex education class.
It was a shock that could not be described by the word "shock.
How does the little fetus know his death?
They struggle to avoid death.
The life was horribly mutilated.
I am against abortion regardless of religion.
(In fact, not only Catholics and Protestants but also other religions who believe in the idea of prostitution are against abortion.)
The fetus is life.
If we continue to supply the minimum amount of nutrients,
You can be born and have human status.
He could grow up to be a life-saving doctor, a fireman,
You can be a superstar, or you can be an ordinary office worker.
Or you could be a cleaner who makes the streets clean.
Or we could just be human beings with human dignity.
But now that abortion has been legalized, the only possible way out of life has been cut...
There may be someone here who believes and claims that abortion is legal.
I don't want to argue directly with them because they're wrong.
All I want to say is, the fetus is life, and life is precious.
Before legalizing abortion charges, if a man and woman have sex and do not want to conceive, then we need to make sure that the contraception is correct and proper.
I think it's better to do something first.
- I think pregnancy by unwanted sexual relations (such as rape) can be solved by improving the legal system.
I added the term editorial to the title because it's a personal opinion.
I've been in the debate club for a long time.
In the Publicity community
I don't want to be the seed of conflict.
Constructively, please leave your honest opinion.
'Oh, that's what he thinks. I'd appreciate it if you could just accept it as much.
We don't fight. Come on. Come on.
After the Lunar New Year's Day, the nation's biggest holiday, there are always questions that you don't want to hear about, such as marriage, employment and childbirth.
Nevertheless, the fact that these questions are repeated is not something to be talked about by adults, so I understand that.
I thought I was in a comfortable position to clean everything up in my position with a marriage and a job and a child, but this is one of the questions that I don't want to hear. "What about the first child's brother? The second plan is?' She already had one and had a wife and a daughter, so she agreed to raise one very well, but she is talking about the second child.
Let's talk about the shortcomings of the only child, starting with the loneliness.
No matter how much we have no plans.
Even if you are an only child, you should pour out your love without sharing your love. I believe that the only child is loved and can grow correctly. Marriage is great in the world these days, and every parent with one or more children deserves respect.
How about a word of support for a family with one child before the second plan?Hah!