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작년 초등 5학년인 둘째가 나도 이제 컸으니 더 이상 어린이날 선물을 받지 않겠다고 선언한 이후로 어린이날 선물을 고민할 일은 없어졌습니다.
아이들이 커감에 따라 필요이건 유행이건,, 사달라는 물건이 많아지고 그 가격도 올라갑니다. 3살 때까지는 그냥 과자면 모든 회유가 가능했던 아이들이 점점 더 맛나는 걸 먹고 싶은 식욕에 익숙해지고 세상엔 너무나도 맛있는 것이 많고 또 그 선택의 다양해짐을 인지하는 순간 그냥 과자로는 유혹이 어려워지죠.
이제 식욕이 해결되면 즐거움의 세계로 넘어갑니다. 처음에는 지인이나 사촌 형들에게 받아온 중고 장난감만으로 즐거웠다가 다다익선의 관점을 가지게 되고 친구의 장난감과 내 것의 차이를 인지하는 순간, 부족한 기능?에 대한 갈구는 어쩌면 당연한 것입니다. 3살인가? 대형매장의 장난감 코너에서 드러누워 사지를 발발 떨며 우는 아이를 보면서 저또한 당황스러웠습니다.
이때부터 부모님들의 대처가 중요한데, 보통은 그래 사람이 욕심이 있어야지 하면서 흔쾌히 그 물건을 계산대에 올려주시는 할아버지, 할머니가 드러누움의 결과로 인식되는 우가 더해지면 설득이고 뭐고 다 지나갑니다. 교육은 처음부터 따끔하게 잡아야 한다고 접근하는 부모들이 많지만 계속 울어대는 아이를 보며 눈에 넣어도 아프지 않을 내 아이에게 뭐가 아까울까? 하며 반복되는 절망을 주기를 다소 꺼려하기도 하니까요.
또한 아이의 눈에는 조부모님의 너그러움을 따르지 않는 아빠와 엄마는 아이가 가진 사회정의와 가정의 평화를 깨버리는 뽀로로에 나오는 입에서 불을 뿜는 공룡이 되어버립니다. 여기서 전문가들은 아이들의 소유심리를 경청해주라고 권합니다.
이후로도 저희 부부는 아무리 드러누워 매장을 닦고 다녀도 울다가 울다가 꺽꺽대는 소리를 내어도 그저 초연히 같은 눈높이를 맞추고 등을 두드려 주고 대안이 될 이야기를 할 뿐 돌발 욕구에 대해서는 대응하지 않았습니다. 대신 계획을 잡고 준비하고 나름 해야 할 심부름과 독서를 장기간 이루어 내는 경우 등 사전에 약속된 욕구에만 대응을 해주었습니다. 전문가의 조언대로 가지고 싶은 욕구를 들어주면서 방향성만 유지했지요.
다른 부모님들은 어떻게 하세요? 저희 부부가 추가로 알아낸 꿀팁은 위대한 유산이라는 책에서 하는 수준까지는 못하겠지만 그래도 뭔가의 탈출구가 절실했지요. 그래서 우리는 바로 “중고”라는 방향을 제시하게 되었습니다. 제가 호주에서 생활할 때, Garage sale이라는 일종의 벼룩시장을 경험했는데, 이제는 나눔 장터라는 이름으로 한국에도 많이 열리고 있더군요. 다행히 제가 거주하는 곳에는 이것이 한 달에 한 번 열렸고 아이들은 안 쓰는 물건을 내다 팔면서 돈을 벌고 다른 필요한 물건을 사게 되었습니다.
이때, 아이와 몇 번 해보면서 자리를 잡은 약속은 다음과 같습니다. 노동법 위반이려나요?
계약 1, 자리를 예약하고 마련한 부모에게 중계비? 알선비?를 10% 지불
계약 2, 최저임금은 적용하지 않음 ㅋㅋ 악덕업주
계약 3, 부모는 본전에 연연하지 않음 (본전을 생각하면 제 가슴이 아프지만, 그 대신에 아이들의 배움이 있기에 참고 넘어가기로 했습니다)
계약 4, 위탁판매가 들어오면 수수료는 10%로 정함 (자주 나와 적당히 파는 걸 본 할머니들의 요청이 들어옴, 주로 손자가 쓰다 간 고가 게임기)
우리의 첫 시도는 나름 결과는 좋았고 다음과 같은 배움을 주기도 해서 여러분들에게 권해볼까 해서 글을 남깁니다.
배움 1, 아줌마들의 에누리 시도에도 당황하지 않고 의연히 대처
배움 2, 지인할인을 요구하는 친구들의 애교로운 눈길에도 공정한 마케팅만이 이 시장에서 살아남는 롱런의 길임을 인지
배움 3, 내가 안 쓰는 물건이 다른 사람에겐 필요할 수 있고, 물건은 새로 사도 소중히 써야 다시 팔 수 있다는 커다란 인생철학
배움 4, 아무 것도 하지 않는 부모들이 10%나 떼어 간다는 억울함과 잘하면 누군가가 위탁해서 내게 없는 물건을 팔 수 있다는 관점의 확장
중고 라는 새로운 형태의 소비를 알려주는 것도 좋은 교육인 듯합니다. Second hand market
Yesterday, I bought three packs of meat, perilla leaves, lettuce, and dakcho on the way home from work.
When I arrived, I was told that I had to study for the big guy, but I called my mom to criticize my school lunch as a "plant country," and even mentioned malnutrition, and received a call saying that I was hungry.
Before I even asked him, "Do you want to go out and eat it?" He said, "I always say what I want to say, but I'm going to quit." So he decided to eat pork belly at home.
I quickly got a camping table and a small chair on the veranda to prepare a meat party for today, and after baking the third round, the children touch their stomachs and go straight to the kitchen, saying, "The end of the meat is instant noodles." While the children were cooking ramen, we were now able to eat quietly, and we added dangcho to the noodles to help them to keep the meat spicy.
I guess parents are the happiest when they see food going into their mouths. If you eat meat at home, you can eat as much as you want, but it involves preparing and cleaning, but I did it all.
I am happy to enjoy a can of beer thanks to the indirect camping trip that I enjoy at home in May.
Have you ever noticed that people driving diesel cars suddenly smelled spicy and smokey while driving, and the engine's power was clearly falling? Then don't make any mistakes like me and take good care of your car.
About 20 years ago, diesel engines were applied to buses, trucks, and some "JEEP" cars. The car was almost gasoline. Hyundai Galloper, Ssangyong Korando and other early models thought the conversation was cool while driving. Since then, diesel cars have gradually spread as Santa Fe has been launched as a national SUV, and these days diesel and SUV vehicles seem to account for half of the roads with the help of imported vehicles. As the diesel engine has recently been branded as the main culprit for fine dust, diesel cars from Norway to Japan will not be registered as early as 2030.
It's been a long time since I switched to diesel, but I don't know one of the features in this diesel car, so I'm having a problem because I'm ignorant. It's been a while since the engine was noisy and dull, and after parking, the radiator smelled of rotten gas.
Oh, I thought I shouldn't leave it alone now, and the next day I went to the garage, and they said PDF was the problem.
It is called the Diesel Particulate Filter and because the explosion temperature of the diesel engine is low at about 220 - 300 degrees Celsius compared to the gasoline engine, it reduces the level of smoke (PM) that can cause a lot of incomplete combustion and be discharged by 80 percent, and when contaminants are collected and filtered through the filter, the emission conditions are higher than 600 - 800 degrees.I am also studying and writing.
When DPF is operating as shown below, a warning lamp will be displayed, although each vehicle has a slightly different display. However, the problem is that there is no warning lamp on the train. There is a blind spot for the driver to take good care of it.
The problem is that DPF will not burn even if there are no certain conditions, even the DPF if the conditions are not met. The conditions vary slightly between the company and the vehicle, but you need to run for more than a certain period of time while maintaining the proper speed and engine revs (RPM). Based on the Hyundai 2.0 diesel vehicle, it is said to be more than 60 km/h and 25 minutes or more at 1500-2500 RPM. But in my case of less than 25 minutes of driving, a short distance, I couldn't get burned because this was not met.
DPF is not only an expensive part of 2 million to 4 million won in itself, but if the DPF fails to function, it can lead to damage to key parts such as the engine, so if you have a diesel vehicle, and if you have a current vehicle, please take care of it. My friend said that imported cars are so sensitive that the warning light turns on frequently, but he doesn't know them as if they were a train.
In my case, I first identified the accumulated amount with the measurement equipment of the BlueHands modern office and cleaned it by connecting the external equipment. Only once? We'll do it for free. Please use it.
Finally, Hyundai and Kia purchase a separate vehicle scanner called DAG-3 (approximately 170,000 won) and connect it to the ECU and secure it to the deciboard, allowing the driver to be optimally aware of and use the DPF to reduce fine dust.
When I was young, I had an oratorical academy all over the place and sometimes I followed a friend who attended an academy. It was a place where people memorized something written in hand and announced it loudly, not in A4 but in about 10 pages of 200-character manuscripts. Like a formula, every child always says at the end, "This speaker ~ I insistent. Or I shout with all my strength." It was kind of a novelty to end with and a little bit of fear to me, who often responded with an ant voice when I read in my class.
First of all, why do I say my thoughts in such a loud? The idea is mine, do you need to speak in front of others? I thought, "I have two close friends, so my mother has not been able to overcome the fear of "my child is falling behind?" and my opinion has been ignored even by my own powerful rejection. I don't remember much later, but what kind of contest did you go to and the angel at home?There was a plaque on which
It was only later that I realized that my mother seemed to accept that her child's ability to organize and present her words convincingly is essential for the future if he or she has to play politics later. I was expecting too much because I felt so comfortable, I was a timid child who watched Sherlock Holmes' detective story in a local bookstore and enjoyed my own reasoning, and a strong backrest that supported my elementary school days.
Growing up, I didn't have many friends, but I always had four or five friends, and I was more good at ironing out friendships than new ones. I'm sure my personality, or my personality, is introverted, but the extroverts haven't dried up at all, and sometimes I'm brave enough to recall?There were times when I was at work, not far from the basic framework, and there were no major complaints, but there was still a sense of impatience that the organization was always missing something.
What if everyone was surprised at the way they pushed me when they saw my child grow up? It is said that children grow up from the back of their parents. Instead of learning social command, fame, power and economic power, they grow up watching their everyday attitudes: their father's life habits, their words, their attitudes and their marital relationships. What if the child suddenly became more outgoing? Among the vague wishes, I came across the book by chance.
It was Susan Kane's "Quite, the power to lead the world quietly in a noisy world."
The book also lists many other achievements made by introverted people such as Gandhi, Che Guevara, Warren Buffett, Darwin and Bill Gates. In the middle of reading this book, the consolation I felt was greater than any adult's words and religious or philosophical teachings, but the final thought at the last minute was a little different. This book may be a natural result of comfort to the timid, but it ended up with a feeling that it was more important not to be just introverted, not to be ashamed of being introverted, not to be ashamed of being extroverted, not to be sure how to balance them and which parts of each case should be weighed more.
"Look around. Half the employees are actually introverted."
I can recall the private information of a company. How important is it to maintain a sense of equilibrium among members in a society that demands more and more positivity and requires endless promotion of self-improvement, and in an organization that wants performance and benefits, including its own sense of equilibrium? So if the ideas and research of introverts give them the same chance to shine cherishedly,
The fate of highly reactive introverted children is more affected by their surroundings. Perhaps more so than the average child. This is a new theory that David Dobos called "The orchid theory." According to the report, some children are like dandelions and can grow well in any environment. However, some children, including those who are highly reactive, are similar to orchids. It easily wanes but can grow strong and wonderful when the right conditions are met."
The careful attention and learning that creates the right conditions for growth for the person would be more important if they were in the position of a leader who leads someone (although it would also include a leader who is a parent).
Lastly, I am sure that smooth chatting skills are an important social function and remain a part of my homework all the time. I train often, but the results are not very good. If you can afford it, I'd like you to take the 2012 TEDTalks...
We need a container to hold and drink beer, and the oak barrels that the Celts used to ferment the beer have been either still in place or turned into stainless tanks until recently.
This time, let's take a look at the change in beer containers. Most of the colors of Korean beer bottles are brown and the green bottle is the beer "terra," which has recently gone to the other side of the globe due to fine dust. There are so many kinds of beer and there are so many different colors in the same kind of brewery that if you were as transparent as a glass of beer, you would be able to see the inside of it from the time to
The reason is that beer is a fermented beverage, so when you meet the sun, you react with the ingredients produced by hops, and smell bad. Black is the most effective color of the malt itself because it is brown, and the next green color.
Even these seemingly trivial colors contain the wisdom of many trials and errors of the past.
The entry of beer into the process was invented in 1892 in the U.S. by the inventor Painter, who suffered from a severe stomachache due to a cork that was used and not completely. Since then, bottled beer becomes more popular as it becomes easier to store and move.
Also, in 1963, when the current full-tap canned beer container was invented in the U.S. by Fraz, and while doing this, the military uses the idea to supply beer to the battlefield when bottled beer supplied to soldiers was broken by bullets and shrapnel during World War II.
Again, the truth is that inventions work well.
The pictures are the first terra from a chicken galbi restaurant near my house, the bottle cap of Pixabei, and the bottle of beer.
I bought my camera for the first time in 1999. It was also a rather strange-looking camera that required a separate jig to be equipped with Nikon's coolfix and stroke.
It was a precious connection that had been a secondary repository for all my memories for about four years before I switched to D50. I studied a lot and took lots of pictures that were not like pictures because they had many functions, and the advantage of being able to see without film prints will be hard to understand.
In particular, if a large number of jjambbong jjigae dropped a drop in a cup of milk as a spoiler, it was a second time for a royal coffin-shaped speaker and various dishes.
While organizing photos with Google Photos recently, there is a previously tumultuous dish-picking habit, so I upload it. The first picture is Focus' eyes and the second one's torso. Afterwards, the film cameras disappeared as the tick dicas came out. I miss the early digital cameras that couldn't even follow the pixels of my smartphone.
When I was young, I thought, "How much more difficult would it have been if there were no ramen in the world?" There was nothing envious of the world when I was always hungry in the middle and high school days, simmering and waiting four minutes and 20 seconds for an egg-throwing, stirring and blowing it out on the lid of a pot. It's mom-pyo's ramen. How did you think it didn't give you more delicious snacks? I still can see my mother eating beside the table. I remember that he cooked ramen and mackerel when he visited the army.
When I fly back to reality, I now turn to the happy expression my children make on a ramen and see me making a happy father smile. Is this because of terrestrial propaganda or because of the importance of father's upbringing? I don't know, but perhaps the biggest reason is because I think I can do this much because it's an impromptu meal that can be done easily.
In the case of acquaintances around you, dads with their arms rolled up like this start screaming, "This isn't boiling, this is how you should do it," and they end up saying, "Oh, let it go. I'll do it." He starts to test out some amazing know-how he can't even remember where he heard it. But the child's reaction is sour, and he says, "Daddy, why are you so full of noodles? It's like an udon." It's a shame to say, "It's embarrassing."
As such, I dare say that ramen is a companion in our lives. However, it is said that consumption of such ramyeon has been decreasing since 2017, which may be complicated, but since ramen is a typical food for people in their 10s and 20s, it is the biggest reason for the decline in the population of the younger generation. The story of instant noodles continues with the birth rate, and the perception that it is fried in oil as the age increases, so the preference for healthy meals cannot be ignored; for example, men in their 50s are reduced to less than 50 percent of teenagers (around 100 a year) and women are less than 30 percent less consumed.
It seems to be trying to break away from the image of fried noodles as they come out recently, but it has not been eaten, so the judgment on the taste is put on hold. Today's introduction was long, but I couldn't control it because my appetite for ramen was so dry.
Have you ever heard of "Astrid Ramen" and "Galaxy Ramen"?
A total of seven kinds of "hasty" noodles, including Bongolre, soup-fried rice cakes, Sinsa-dong cold noodles, pizza, spicy stir-fried dishes, soy sauce Mayo, cream curry and cream creams, are on the market. The price is about 1,500 won per person on average, which is more expensive than regular ramen, but it is a job to try. The ramen first came out in December 2017 and is said to have gained sensational popularity among the maniacs, and I only saw it for the first time when the older child brought in the monster noodle he received from a friend. I have ordered two different flavors of ramyeon for the children's torch, and I am looking forward to it.
It is not actually made by a company called the Oktoogi Project, but it is put on the market in collaboration with various companies. This time, Samsung Electronics is offering "Galaxy Ramen" as a promotional material, and an alien is said to have a cartoon on the front of it that makes ramen with the Galaxy. Basically, it is called the base and it is not yet known if a separate flavor will be added.
Eventually, you will eat the most raw ramen, but it seems to be a great choice to enjoy it with your children as a delicacy on the weekend.
Where will the Ramen change head? It's curious and interesting.
It was a very unfortunate thing yesterday, because I heard of the fire at Notre Dame Cathedral in France.
France may think of the Eiffel Tower, but it is one of many landmarks and the site of the French Catholic Church and the coronation of Napoleon. Watching a 700-year-old video of the destruction of oak frames and the collapse of the spire reminds me of the arson of Sungnyemun Gate in our country.
As I walked along the Seine River, I got off the cruise ship and looked for No. 2.
A few years ago, I was partly cleaning and repairing stone...Now the original article has been damaged.
Whatever the reason may be, I pray that I have shown the beauty to tourists who have been restored and will visit Paris in the future.
If you had 3D scanning, you would have restored the shape, but all the artworks and beautiful stained glass that seemed to have come to the kingdom of God were melted away.
Even with this advanced fire alarm and automatic fire prevention system, I still feel the horror of the fire horse because I have to watch it for eight hours.
I had a little argument with my father this week. At the beginning of the debate, my father thinks that the younger generation is not living hard.
I'm a middle-aged man, but I'm indirectly feeling how hard my young friends are living, so I tried to tell you what my father didn't know, but I only grew up against him. I'd like to introduce a book that just popped into my mind. I'd like to be nice to my father, but I know I won't see him.
It starts calmly with a description of some very routine tasks that take place inside a convenience store where the main character works part-time. It's a repetitive task that anyone can think of as convenience stores, but it's a little bit of effort that can be expressed to a customer in a meaningful gesture with some rules.
It's usually about a woman (Rukura Keiko) who lives happily and not only because she's the only place in her life where students or housewives who change their faces every time they visit a convenience store or work part-time job here to earn money and tuition, or to earn hagwon fees and side dishes.
The character of a novel feels like a documentary that does a close-knit job. I don't know if it's all so, but when I read a novel, I read a story with my head acting like a movie. I think Lee Kwang-soo comes to mind as a man who lives with a female character and eventually turns around because of his children.
The fact that the main character's life is unusual dates back to his childhood, kindergarten. How many examples?What should I do if my child is like this? The fear of being pushed in. Is it just because this kid's response is unusual? Or is it because I want the right answer? Let's take a look.
One, let's eat this. Should we get more?
The hero who saw the dead bird on a picnic with his parents in kindergarten suddenly said to his mother, "Hey, poor, let's bury them," and said, "Let's eat this, shall we get more?" And inside his heart, when he takes it home and cooks, he likes the skewer, and I and my sister like the chicken, and I can't tell why he's buried it.
2, a flag in elementary school?
After entering elementary school, boys in the same class are told to "dry someone up" during a fistfight, then take out a shovel from the toolbox and smack a child in the head. To the frightened child and teacher, the main character replies, "Just because you told me to do it, I stopped it the fastest way."
Let's forget, this time, when a teacher makes the atmosphere heavy with hysteria, and when she asks her children to stop crying and asking them to stop crying, she refuses to accept it, and the hero goes forward and pulls down your skirt and panties.
Clearly, the unusual family consists of a gentle banker's father, a tender mother, and a sister who followed the protagonist well, seemingly without any problems, whose parents continue to love and nurture, but the child does not cause any further trouble, and goes on to middle, high and high school. This is the first time that we have a part-time job with a new convenience store.
I regard convenience stores as the only thing that comes into my head, train myself steadily according to the rules of work, and work as a competent clerk. Even during off-duty hours, I will try and sleep like a robot. I live with gratitude for being a part of a seemingly normal world.
By chance, I quit the convenience store where I had been serving as the CEO for 18 years, and I'm going to challenge the other world. But in the convenience store where I made my last decision, I was born for the first time 18 years ago when I entered the convenience store, so I realized that I couldn't be anything but a convenience store human being from birth and a convenience store.
When I look at the main character, if there is a place where people like Keiko can live together, can I live on my own will instead of wearing a mask? So isn't this where you're being raised in a way you don't want to be?
Mainstreamers and non-mainstreamers, as we often say, are revealing more deeply about invisible non-mainstreamers hiding in society, but if we expand to the other side, are women supposed to be different, men to be male, many of the accomplishments that need to be done in due course: employment, marriage, child care and home-making? I think it's an indication that I'm going to live. We have these basic requirements around us?Have you ever seen a non-mainstream person like "comfortable man" while looking at friends who are late in life?
The novel is a bit dark, but isn't the convenience store a staircase to heaven for the main character? Acknowledgement of others, this is a new homework.
It's not that we don't live hard, it's that we make mistakes that we don't see on our side that we're a little bit deviated from our standard of living. Despite the recent difficulties in getting a job for young people, older people often blame them for not living hard, but if our generation had written letters 10 times, they would have written 500 times, but the changing trend of the times and the imprinted perception would still be a high wall.
Different from me is different in the way of perception, such as thinking, mind, etc., regardless of body. We have a question of how much of this difference we can accept and how much we can understand
The cherry blossoms are falling and the tulips are rising. I heard a lot about tulips about 2 years ago. Tulip is a lily, multi-yearly albatross plant and is 20 to 60 centimeters tall. When it blooms in April and May, the petals unfold when it is over 20 degrees, and when it goes down to about 10 degrees, Omrad grows up again and grows into large petals. Flower horses are all about love because of their colorful, dark scent.
Red tulips: Love, Confession, and chastity.
Yellow Tulip: Loveless Love
Bora Tulip: Eternal Love
White Tulip: True Tulip
There are two myths about tulips.The universal story is that a beautiful girl lives in a small village, and each of the three men who fell in love with her proposed marriage as a gift (the crown, the sword, the gold), but the chic girl who doesn't need anything is just a token of gratitude and finally leaves the girl who didn't take it 10 times. Because of the curse, the flower goddess "Flora," who felt sorry for the story, was reborn as a flower. Shouldn't a flower horse be a "steel girl" at this rate?
A year ago? Do you remember the boom of cryptocurrency? Someone on TV mentioned the tulip panic caused by the price crash following the tulip investment craze in 17th century Detroit? Everyone thinks it's from Finland, but it's from Turkey.
The 16th-century flower is said to have been traded in the rank of general, admiral, governor, emperor and so on, both militarily and economically stable at the time, to show off its wealth accumulated beyond its great love and care of the flower of the country, which increases its popularity and eventually results in a shortage. As you all know, I jumped up without knowing it was sky-high, and it was equivalent to the price of a house in Detroit, where the real estate price was considerably higher than that of neighboring countries at that time.
That's a real bummer.
How many labels do you think clearly when you close your eyes now and think about the labels on a beer bottle or can? The Guinness Book of World Records, which boasts a 250-year-old tradition, has an instrument, and what is it? There's something in each of these simple designs on the labels of Carlsberg and Heineken in red, so what is it?
The answer is harp, Danish crown, and star. Well, whatever the label is, it's delicious, but I've seen a lot of labels I haven't seen in recent years. Did you have a beer like this? In some cases. These are so-called kraft beers. Gangseo, Dalseo, Daedong River, and Pongdang Brewery are the Korean leaders.
Today, we're going to be listening to this kraft beer. Recently, there have been a series of handmade beers in Korea, and it's safe to say that they are beer from small breweries with unique flavors rather than the grandiose propaganda of small, independent and traditional.
Kraft beer, the first term for American brewers in the 1980s, is the most fashionable beer in the U.S. market, where different beer, fusion beer and Sintobul are trumpeting beer to escape the blind beer that depended on imports among brewers who thought the large-scale brewer was gimbap on the greens.
Last year, in many cities, including Seoul and Daegu, Kraft Festival has been held in earnest since 2016. I hope to have a lot of events this year, so I'm going to attend.
The representative works, which are mainly classified as IPA (India Pale Ale), are mainly made of kraft beer and are fed up with the common beer, so they are characterized by flavor, aroma, and a variety of colors.
Major U.S. beer brands include BALLAST POINT, STONE and INDICA, but they say that Koreans who are familiar with lager feel somewhat bitter and strong in flavor at first.
The original IPA used the PALE word "clear" and "exaggerated pale" as it added embalming functions because conventional alebeers quickly go bad for many people who miss their home country's beer.
I don't think it's so bad to pick out a beer from the label you've never seen before on Friday. But just try filtering the level of awareness through the Internet.
Wonderful Craft beers
Since a few days ago, there has been a lot of talk about the dog named Manul and his tomb. This is my first time since I thought I wouldn't raise it since I sent it away four years ago. I'm going to see it this week.
There are more people in Publicito who love each other.Suddenly, I think of a picture that I took in Insadong.
#Wood cat#Insa dong#Seoul
Have you ever heard of a black hole? It often appears in sci-fi movies and sucks everything, but to learn more, it's easy to feel self-inflicted or self-destructive when you read a little bit of gravity waves, quantum mechanics, curved time and space. But the movie Interstellar, Gravey, etc. doesn't know or understand, but it feels like something mysterious exists in the universe. So do I, but I have an interesting article to share.
A black hole is a very small, dense object, and it's called a twisted horizon where light can't escape from the gravitational field. It seems to exist in evidence and a lot of research, but I didn't see it in real life. If I do well this time, I can see it.
EHT (Event Horizon Telescopes, Chile and Antarctica, from around the world, working together to observe the same distant objects) will release its first results at a press conference on Wednesday, April 10.
The first picture is a simulation of what a black hole looked like at EHT last year by Avery Broderick, an associate professor at the University of Waterloo. Can I see a picture like this tomorrow? If you see a shadow that a black hole makes, it's going to go down in history, but I don't understand.
For more information, please see the article GIZMODO below.
#EHT#black hole#appreciate them
The writer of Otsuichi, who was introduced by Nilgo a while ago.Although it is difficult to identify the identity of the two books, the story is quite dark and somewhat mysterious.
ZOO's slightly chilling story seems to have blown away at the same time as the elastic band of the rubber-stamp plane unfastened at the same time. In short, the end is a bit disappointing.
Today's book, the murder of Hana and Alice, confuses his identity. This book feels as if teenage girls want to live only 20 years old.
A girl who has moved to school feels all students are keeping away from her while she is strangely curious to see strange signs and text on the wooden floor under her desk. Then I hear that a boy who was there a year ago was killed.
The novel that we know well about is an animation film, as it turns out on the cover of a book. It'll be a spoiler if you write it down any more, so fold it up here...
It's been like 30 years, and I've been reading a book, and it's kind of awkward.I can see everything in 2 1/2 hours.
#Otsich#Hana and Alice Murder #
My toes are longer than my little fingers and my second toe is longer than my thumb. But don't imagine too much of a meanness.The toes are just a little bit long.
But when they're born, they put a stamp on their feet, right? The only thing that comes in at a glance is the second toe.The old saying that you can't steal a seed is just perfect.
My sons are growing up and, strangely enough, they were both the chief goalkeepers in elementary school, and the second is active. Yesterday, I had two penalty kicks in a match with the school next door, but I missed them," she cried and cried.
I'm not good enough, but I can't say I'm proud of myself. I talked about my father's experiences and tried to soothe him. I learned soccer from coach Kim Ho when I was in elementary school and played for a while. I gave up because of my parents' opposition, but as a hobby I played golf until I was in the army. In the army, I once won a military convention and went on vacation.
When I heard of my dad's failures, I was so proud to go to training right away that I had no choice but to lift a heavy.
I've never said it before, but it's amazingly athletic. On Saturday evening, we will go to the nearby soccer field and go to the goalkeeper's hell training. I need to practice hard and come tomorrow because of lack of sliding and catch.I hope you'll be more confident in the next game.
Future goalkeifer of national society team
Saturday is a sore point. I don't eat bread at the french bakery. It's just a homemade bakery that's hanging out the baking time.About a year ago, it closed down and turned into a cosmetic shop.
I sleep well on Saturday. I put on my hat and recently introduced myself to a new hand-made bakery in my neighborhood. I will start with brunch today.
I always pay 20,000 won to 2,000 won for a cup of hot capuchs and a small plate of cheese creamy baguettes and pepperoni pizza.
Now, we're going to go swimming in the pool and transform ourselves into a human. I've been so passionate about swimming lately that... Have a good weekend.
I am going to Czech, home to Bohemian Rhapsody.
In 1838 an important event occurred in the Czech city of Plzen, where citizens protested in front of City Hall, throwing beer on the floor as it tasted too beer-flavored and getting sick with spoiled beer. This is Pilsner Urquell, who invited Joseph Groll, a famous brewer from Bavaria, Germany, to become the top seller of convenience stores in Korea.
The photos are four-can full sets of convenience stores selected for this weekend and official advertising photos of Filsner.
"Urquell" is a Czech word that means "original" in In the traditional face-to-face effect technique where yeast is filtered while it is still alive, beer has a high turbidity level, but the bitter taste and softness made by the technique of killing yeast with high temperatures or rapid cooling and then filtering it cleanly are quite good. In other words, the scent and flavor are small, but a neat golden beer is finally born.
Therefore, Filsner, who means "lager of plexen," made it up to me in many breweries that later stole manufacturing methods, so the original Pilsner adds "original, Urquell" to the product name, highlighting the difference.
Although it is said that some people feel nothing but bitterness, the taste of Pilsner Urkel, who is personally favorite, remains at the tip of his tongue and flows into the breast of his neck is excellent.
One regrettably, the lovely beer was sold to Japan's Asahi Breweries for no legal reason but for preventing monopoly. If Korean beer companies took over, we could enjoy beer and patriotic songs.
It's Bulge. How about a can of Philsner for me after a week of hard work?
I'm a big fan of Philsner Urquell. A phantastic beer for weekend freetime.
Recently, a lot of people's events have been pouring in to activate the Publicito.
What's the trouble with mountaineering?I've only been watching for a moment because of the presence ofI'd like to participate in $greenjuice11's spring greens event even though I can't dig it myself.
Manul likes fried food. So I often eat dumplings, but I have to go on a diet. I feel really bad.
So, I introduce flat dumplings and owls kimbap, which are our favorite dishes that we often eat as a way to enjoy vegetables while eating dumplings.
Gimbap is made only with egg sticks and owls, and before it is wrapped, apply a thin layer of soy sauce lightly mixed with mayonnaise and Wasabi.
Of course, vegetables are prepared by slicing lettuce, onion, bean sprouts, cabbage, carrots and cucumbers into thin slices, and even the most important manul-pyo candles and laver.
Lastly, I will cook flat dumplings that are sent directly from Daegu and it's ready.
I missed a picture of four people eating dumplings because they were so busy eating one more.
Enjoy the full spring season and enjoy the spring fragrance with vegetables that are good for your body and in season. Today, I'm going to transfer to the water parsley that I received as a gift.
#It's spring and time to enjoy vees.
I have a hard time raising my three sons, who are father to two sons, but I'm a bit of a blunt Gyeongsang Province man who can't talk and talk. I always look at myself with bright eyes and when I get home from work, I just want to thank Manu for chattering away for five minutes. But I'm a good listener.Manul always complains that the reaction is weak.
If you have a son, one of them acts as a daughter, and that's what my second child does He has more girlfriends than men, but one day he goes out to the library and comes back, and all of a sudden he slips a bag out of his mother.When I opened it, I saw a woman's dress. She said it was my mom's favorite clothes before the show. She gave me a gift with a shy look.
Manul was surprised, but she changed her voice and looked so happy.
At the end of the fashion show, the child takes the clothes in his hand and wipes away tears with an emotional expression when he says that he wanted to buy them because his mother looked so happy at them.
It was a very pleasant and happy day, but somehow I felt sorry for saying, "Is your husband really on the other side?" The child who bought more than 200,000 won worth of clothes said he had saved the money he had left in his pocket money, and now he has only 2,000 won left in his account. It turned out that he broke his pocket in cooperation with his brother.
I thanked them and read their mother's heart and eyes, and I thought I would do better than myself when I was in a relationship later, so I took 240,000 won out of the slush funds I had and distributed them in my children's wallets.
He added a note, "Thank you and write well when you need it," in small letters, and p.s.
A few days later, Manul went out to eat and watch a movie with her children, so she decided to go back and forth to thank them. But in fact, Manul persuaded the kids to return their clothes and return the money to them, and instead finished by ordering similar dress online for a cheap price.
So, my emergency payment of 240,000 won is gone? I'm sure it's my own pain, but I'm happy to have these precious kids and the little manure that they're returning them.
If I look happier later on, will the kids buy my clothes? I don's
I earnestly hope for the fair love of my children, swallowing the anxiety that I feel at first. This picture was taken when I went on a trip to Hansando quite a long time ago. I think I was this big.
I introduce Jinhae Zip track that I found while I was looking for a tourist attraction at Jinhae outing. It is 1,399 meters long and boasts Asia's longest and can feel the dizzying speed of up to 60 to 80 km/h, it said. What's unusual is that the 99-meter-high steel tower falls across the sea to Sokuri Island and returns on a small jet boat.
So it's completely sliding down the ocean.I'm afraid it's not because it's so high. The current progress was made internally on March 30.With the concept of a completion ceremony, the test quota that was supposed to be decided on that day was not due to strong winds, so the opening was postponed from early April to early May.
I heard that the reservation for a month is already. I'm planning to sign up tomorrow, so the scheduled date is not fixed.
Zipline is connected to the island by a total of 8 wires, and just below the two floors is a walkway that protrudes to the outside of the steel tower, and there is an Edge Walk that connects safety gear to the beam and tilts to the outside of the passageway for a dizzying experience.
Personally, I think this is worse than a straw track. The price is 50,000 won for zip track and 30,000 won for edgewalk, and the monthly discount for open games is 32.5 million won, respectively, and Changwon residents are always available at this discount price.
Enjoying the thrill of speed and height? Let me introduce it for you. I make up my mind to make a reservation when I post that he's safe on board. L
#Changwon straw track #1,399m#
He drives long distance to see FC football in South Gyeongsang Province with his second son and six friends in Changwon. The reason is because of his son's position, goalkeeper Gad Hyun-woo.
The game is losing. It was a victory for South Gyeongsang Province, which scored two goals in the second half.
Politicians are wearing yellow, blue, red and green at the entrance of the stadium, and even representatives from each party can be seen. There is reportedly a by-election on April 3 with the absence of the late lawmaker Roh Hee-chan.
Suddenly, the idea of the late lawmaker Roh Hee-chan comes to mind. Kim Ji-young, born in 82 who was read by a man, was slightly flamboyant, but she was able to read the book in a flash through the development that led her to the direction she wanted, and three hours later, she dropped the book, but her heart was heavy. I wasn't quite aware of these problems in the birth and actual growth of many women, but for me who grew up in three brothers, the narrow and shallow understanding was undeniable.
"A small fire has fallen on the dust of old emotion, already dry. The youngest and most beautiful days were so vainly burned to ashes."
Rather than sympathizing with the pain of Kim Ji-young's first breakup, he may have read it again and again in the details that were pushed out of the above sentence. Powder keg! I don't know well about feminism and don't know without knowing ilbe emotions built up enough minor, but the Crazy about daughter is these days and reached dangerous levels.As there are words many parents before they have take good care of her, but the suffering of these are still my mother was born and grew up and we are sorry that we live. Even more so, my daughter at home is a precious treasure, but her lack of courtesy for women her daughter's age in society fills the newspapers and the Internet every day.
Shouldn't this book be read more by men than women? I have an idea that Whether you didn't know, or you didn't,
As she becomes a mother, her personal relationships are cut off and excluded from society, which is then left to her family. And they're only allowed for the children."
The next day I had ordered this book for a present to Manul. I don't know about my past life as the youngest woman, but I want to be a little bit more nice, at least as long as I remember this novel. Many mothers, thank you very much for your sacrifice and dedication, so the Republic of Korea now exists. I dare say it. I wanted more people to read this book and understand it, and I wanted women to write it everywhere they belong.
Also, I found out later that this book is controversial, but I personally think it is not an ideological book or a philosophy book, but it is not just a book of sharing and consideration that I cannot judge life that I have never lived, and I can only sympathize with it as a reader, so there is a lot of pain in men, but there is a lot of difference in the way that life is right.
Following the first installment, beer, now a dusty drink, finally spreads to Britain, Ireland and Scotland, where ale beers new clothes and a renaissance.
It is a high-fidelity beer that ferments the surface with carbon dioxide that occurs when fermented in Tongan, and is rich in color and high in frequency. Koreans may be familiar with Lager, a light and mild fermented side dish, but most foreign beers at convenience stores in Korea are lagers, with ale such as Britain's Porter, Ireland's Guinness, Stout and Belgium's Hogarden. This includes the Taedong River and Gangseo Brewery.
Since it is fermented by stir-frying barley, the color is strong due to some of the burnt barley and the opinions of those who have never drunk it are usually divided, but most people think of Chinese medicine or think of a round item called a widget on the floor, and complain that they don't drink it again. So did I.
Importing in Korea is slightly over 4 degrees, but you can enjoy the Guinness Book of World Records ranging from 6 to 8 degrees when you go to England.
Guinness says it's hard to get out of the way if you taste it right. Does Gineth know that people who have watched cans closely often drink them most deliciously? Look at YouTube below and try to follow suit.
You need cold cans and glasses. If you open the can and wait five seconds, the patent, which costs over 10 billion won for development, will emit nitrogen gas, and now you can tilt the glass 45 degrees to 80 percent, while the remaining 20 percent will stand up and bubble vertically. At this time, the thick brown bubbles flowing on the surface of the surface look like performances. Now, wait 119.5 seconds and wait until the beer and bubble are completely separated, and drink it. What color will be a dark brown beer? Everyone turn on the clock and enjoy a can today.
Perhaps beer love reminds me of the German Germanic and Anglo-Saxon people in England, who were also the most famous and hard-to-find first-class beer in the world before Lager was made.
I'm sorry to tell you about beer in the morning, but today, Saturday evening, I hope you can feel ale while you's eating a can of Guinness.
I remember Estonia's PUB, which made two weekends all-in because it felt and tasted good a few years ago, its name was Hell Hunt and it was a Baltic city called "Talin."Among the cities that have joined the Hanseatic League in history class, it is located at the western edge of the city and dealt with by the Hanseatic League mainly by daily necessities such as fur, fish, honey, grain and beer.
Today, I'm going to focus on beer among the daily necessities. If you look only at Europe, beer is now in its golden age with German lager beer, starting with the Celtic, followed by the Middle Ages of British Aile. The picture is a map of beer that shows famous beer in every region in the German landscape. All of a sudden, you're If you knew more than 4 things while you were doing this, you would have had a mid-level, 7 or more ships.
The first beer went through Sumerro Egypt and Babylon 6,000 years ago, a form of bamboo that consumed only liquids with straws. The record that a few slices of bread and four liters of beer were given a day to the workers of Fide, who were forced to work hard, and that beer played the role of a monthly salary for medieval sailors and soldiers would have all been kicked out these days.
When Rome's Julius Caesar conquered Galia, a golden gliding wheat granary, he was surprised to see the first drink they had gathered, and said, "These savages sat around in a round wooden box and enjoyed drinking like a horse. For the Romans, who usually ate wine, beer that was fermented in three weeks and could be drunk was considered as a tinder's drink.
Previously, ginger trees, mugwort and rosemary were ground together for bitter taste, but in the eighth century, hops were found in the amazing royal family plant, allowing for bitter taste and organ storage.
I usually drink Pilsner Urquell of Czech Republic, Paulaner of Germany, Oettinger and Krombacher of Krombacher when I see new beer. In other words, I'm wandering around, but I think I'm going to have to confess that I'm an exoskeleton.
I think it's going to be a long story. Should we share our doggy philosophy with those who love beer?
I took a week off and went out with Manul. I left early in the morning and arrived at my first destination, Jinhae Harding Station, and it was a little over 10 o'clock. There are about 10 tourist buses standing by the side of the road and most are Chinese tourists. The sad thing is that last week's cold weather delayed the flowering of flowers, which will likely bring about a full bloom around the start of the military navigation system this weekend.
It was said that in the past, when cherry blossom trains passed by, the flowers were scattered with flying petals. However, there are now three-car trains on hold. A two-car train is converted into a memorial hall.
Manul and I came alone to play spring flowers, but the intruder got in. Two of them.The second one followed me as the school's anniversary because I love flowers.
I thought the Chinese would come only to Jeju Island, Seoul and Myeong-dong, but I didn't expect to see such a flower play.
He then saw the eight-story Jinhae Tower, which was a planned city built as a naval base during the Japanese colonial era. Some old buildings are seen with strong colors.
She put her children in VR experience centers and walked in hand for the first time in a long time. She ordered latte and cappuccino at a coffee shop, and still saw more cherry blossoms, and she was fascinated by that memory she visited when she was newly married 16 years ago.
Compared to that time, neither I nor the world has changed a lot, but nature and memory still calmly greet us as if we had been waiting for a long time.
# Family # Cherry Blossom # # Jinhae
어머니 생신으로 주말에 본가를 찾았다. 언제나 그렇듯 월남쌈으로 점심을 배터지게 먹었는데, 본토 제작법으로 흉내내어 직접 만든 소쓰는 마트에서 파는 그것과 차원이 다른 맛을 선사해준다.
오랜만에 화창한 날씨에 부모님을 모시고 근처 산책과 망아산 등산을 한다. 가는 길에 찾은 동래부동헌을 찾았는데 마치 하드젤을 가득 바른 헤어스타일리스트처럼 멋을 한껏 부린 나무 한 그루가 눈에 들어온다.
태양을 향한 나무의 몸부림인지 한 쪽으로 치우치고 또 하늘을 향해 치솟은 잎들도 볼만하고, 또 밑둥이 마치 여러가닥의 가지들이 서로 칭칭 감긴 것같은 형상에 신기하기만 하다.
이젠 80세가 된 할아버지에서 시작해 손자, 손녀까지 총 14명이 된 우리 가족처럼 서로 서로 힘껏 의지하고 보다 끈끈하게 같이 뻗어나갈 수있는 우리 가족을 보는 듯해 기분이 묘하다.
A vacuum cleaner bought for 190,000 won with a limited edition of 100,000 won during the Black Friday fastball two years ago. Not long ago, it was okay to try to pull something small off the floor, emptying the dust can and cleaning the filter, but nothing gets better.
Eventually, I look around and see dust and hair on the head. Come to think of it, haven't you thought of cleaning this place for the last two years? If you don't know or are 5 percent short, you can always find YouTube and Dyson cleaning.
It was a slow start, not a difficult task. Wash it clean with water, dry it in the shade, and reassemble it, and the sound and suction power of the cyclone come back to life. Now I will clean it once a month...
A sunny morning without fine dust, all the windows of the house were opened and wet. A rather strong wind winds round my body and into the whole house. Oh, how happy you are.
It's a sad day because I don't feel well. Second, the school next door has a soccer match in the afternoon and asks for hell training from morning.
What are you afraid of?In this clean weather... A little cold doesn't matter at all. Put on your arms and vest and go...
Cherry blossoms are a member of the rose family and show the completion of spring due to the bright colors of the petals that bloom. It is called "Cherry" in English, "Sakura" in Japanese, and the fruit is a birch.
The cherry trees are divided according to the time and color of blooming, and we usually think of them as having pink flowers from April to early May and a mountain cherry tree that produces flowers that are close to white.
White, light pink. Its rich petals make it feel like it's sprinkled with paint.
The cherry blossoms that were taken yesterday, most trees shyly flutter with pale crimson as if they would burst into bloom. Some of them were quick-tempered and burst out from the edge of this still cold-cold flower-snow.
The cherry blossom said, "You're blooming now. I'll have to go to see it." When it rains, it reaches out to the whole world for about a full moon, and when it rains, the sprouts come up and end. Maybe that's different from tree to tree today, but it'll probably be full from next weekend. Personally, cherry blossoms think the night is more beautiful than the day, and the leaves of cherry blossoms, which glow more white with the moon's light, are simply the best.
Next week, she will take the children apart and go to the Manul and Jinhae Cherry Blossom Festival. I'm going to visit Yeojewon, the Romance Bridge in Jinhae, which I found in my relationship. A little early in expectation of wind-swept firestorms in the trees, believing that heaven will help.Haha
I'm going to listen to this song in the spirit of that time. "You two are walking.~"
Cherry Blossom Ending - Busker Busker
My love, my love, my love.
We're gonna walk together today. We're gonna walk this street.
How about a lullaby at night?
You're the only one I didn't know.
You're walking with this unknowable tremor.
in the spring breeze
fluttering cherry blossoms
This street that's going to ring.
(UhUh) You two are walking.
Below is the schedule of the cherry blossom festival. Except for Jinhae, there is a sense of speed.I hope it's a day full of sunny things in the minds of all the Publishers.
Jinhae Gunhangje: April 1-10 (30,000 won for the one-day trip to Seoul and Gyeonggi-do)
Hwagae Market Cherry Blossom Festival: March 29-31.
Daegu Yew World Starlight Cherry Blossom Festival: March 23~April 7
Yoido Spring Flower Festival: April 5-11.
There is a saying that pictures are magic of light. Photographs can't exist without light.
There are so many photos that I can't get away with just Instagram, which is in charge of sharing photos in Publicito.
So, about 20 years ago, I bought a DSLR camera that was somewhat unfamiliar and went around to take a picture, but it went up a bit for about two years.
And then it's shrinking, and now it's all initialized, and I'm very envious of the people who take great pictures.
What if you just draw a few lines with a mouse or a pen and it turns into the best picture I want? There was an announcement yesterday that this kind of imaginative thinking became a reality.
The software, called "GauGAN," is demonstrated on the deep learning platform of "Nvidia" and is trained on the basis of images allowed in "Flicker Creative Commons," drawing only the outline of a feature's outline, and at the bottom of the screen, the space becomes an interesting fantasy.
We are currently demonstrating this software on the RDX Titan GPU platform and expect it to be available on all platforms in the future.
If you've seen some of the assembly and specifications of a computer, you've probably seen a lot of the name "Nvidia." It's a so-called "AI computer company," also famous for graphics cards. Using the deep learning framework, users of this software have created an amazing image creator who can create images that are no different from real photos with just a few clicks and drags, which is an AI-era MS Paint.
The white paper is out, so please watch the YouTube video below.
What's more surprising is that we're developing a setup that links hundreds of thousands of objects to other objects in the real world.
Simply put, the picture below may actually exist.
The picture of a leafy tree taken in January and spring shows that when the seasons change in the real world, the leaves fall and can turn into twigs.
2, A picture of the foggy lake in the early evening may show the sunny side of the lake in the afternoon.
How far can we see technology in our lifetime, and how far can our children see it? I'm just curious about the end.
Does spring come for me, too, who has given up the control of TV remotones taken away by Manul?
There is a TV program that has become a total fan since I happened to see it late last year. To our great delight, it airs on Saturday at 7:10 a.m.
This is a safe time for Manul not to come near the TV. There were so many entertainment programs that I didn't have much toIt's really a valuable program like droughts and dandruffes.
It is "a lap in Kim Young-chul's neighborhood."
It's a kind of show-style show, led by actor Kim Young-chul, who is known for his "Money semi-meet" and "You've insulted me," with a quiet yet clear voice.
I targeted "people map, emotional communication" in an excuse that I'm busy even though I've lived for decades, and that I'm living my life around and around like a squirrel.
The so-called "treasure hunt for small things" is an analog urban flight.
It's a program to search for the Oasis in our neighborhood, one building by one, one by one, and one by one, leaving something that you can only see when you pause and call your parents and raise your head.
We're already preparing for the 18th episode this week. If there's any neighborhood down here that's near our Publicity fans, check it out.
We see our lives that we didn't usually.
The first episode is brilliant. It's just a rip-off.
The second episode is great. It's a hundred years' walk, Masan Hapo-gu, Changwon.
Nice to meet you in the 3rd episode. Downtown Bukhansan – Bulkwang, Seoul, Nokbeon-dong
4th Salgada Jipyeongseon-gil – Taepyeong, Seongnam, Oyadong
5th episode will be fixed, my friend – Samyang-dong, Gangbuk-gu, Seoul
Seoul Haengchon-dong, Natural-dong
It shines seven times – Jeongdongjin, Jungang-dong, Gangneung
8th New Year's Day Beyond the Forest Road of the Gyeongui Line – Yeonnam-dong, Seoul
Strong in 9th inning Gunsana – Wolmyeong-dong, Gunsan, Haesin-dong
I miss 10 times. Haebangchon – Yongsan-dong, Seoul, Huam-dong
11th deep-rooted Incheon Port - Bukseong-dong, Incheon. Sinpo-dong
I like the 12th winter. Romantic lakeside – Chunchon Jukrim-dong, Hyoja-dong
The 13th episode is again in Gangnam - Nonhyeon-dong, Seoul
14th Yunda Pogu Village – Ho Mi-Got, Guryongpo
Remember the 15th episode of the hill – Hyochang-dong, Seoul
Dolsan Village Below the 16th Fortress – Changshin-dong, Seoul, Ewha-dong
17th Warmer Gangnaru-gil – Misadong, Sinseong-dong, Hanam
have a peace of mind at the 18th time Lake Village – Shinheung-dong, Anseong, Geumchang-ho (March 23, this week)
전 아들만 둘있는 아빠입니다. 첫째 아들의 키도 키우고 몸싸움도 좀 익히려는 목적에 초등학교 5학년부터 동네에서 대학교 선수 출신인 강사에게 주말마다 2시간 씩 농구레슨을 시켰어요.
중학교에 가면서 레슨은 그만 두었지만 운동을 좋아해서인지 중학교에 가서는 자발적으로 농구부에 가입을 했더군요. 뭐 가끔씩 근처 학교 농구부랑 친선경기를 하고나서 무용담을 오래 늘어놓던 기억이 있었고 주말에는 저도 1:1 시합도 하곤 했는데, 제가 가지고 노는 정도였어요.
까불지마라,아직 아빠 살아있다, 이때쯤 제가 아끼고 소장하던 SLAM DUNK 23편을 모두 물려주었죠.
이랬던 아이가 중학교 1학년 동안 키가 약 20cm가 넘게 자라더니 이제 저보다 2cm 아래까지 치고 올라오고 신발은 저보다도 더 큰 280을 신어야 할 정도라서 이제 겉으로 보이는 신체적 조건으로는 저와 다를 바가 없지만 뛰어도 뛰어도 지치지 않는 체력에는 저질체력의 아빠는 당해낼수가 없더군요. 작년에는 도 대회에서 3등을 해서 메달을 걸고는 한 두달은 자랑하고 다니던 모습이 꼴 사나웠습니다.
오랜만에 미세먼지도 겉힌 주말에 엄마가 아웃렛에서 쇼핑을 하는 동안 근처 중학교에 와서, 또다시 1대1일 한판 벌입니다. 첫판은 아들이 몸이 안풀렸다면서 슛 난조를 보이면서 10:8로 제가 드디어 이겼습니다. 기가 살아난 저는 이후 두판을 더했는데, 10:2, 10:3으로 참패를 당하는데..가만히 생각하니 이놈이 첫판은 철없는 아빠를 봐준듯한 느낌입니다.
이제 기술마저 늘어 아빠를 가지고 노는 수준에 다다라서 운동한다는 생각으로 임해주지만 아주 가끔 속에서 욱 하고 올라오는 승부욕에 무리를 해본들,,, 결과는 매 한가지입니다.